Tuesday 23 June 2015

How to be the perfect wife

Rather than keep complaining of how women are not living up to expectations, men should let them know the areas they are not doing well and if you are lucky to marry a good woman, she will change:

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.
(Prov 15v1)



2). Don’t expose your husband’s weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other’s keeper.
(Eph 5v12)

3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don’t have a happy home.
(Prov 15v13)

4). Never compare your husband to other men, you’ve no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.

5). Never ill treat your husband’s friends because you don’t like them, the person who’s supposed to get rid of them is your husband.
(Prov 11v22)

6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.
(Gen 2v24)

7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.
(Eph 5v33)

8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.
(Deut 3v28)

9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband’s sweat is too precious to be wasted.

10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband s*x. You should give it to him how he wants it. S*x is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over that duty. No man can withstand s*x starvation for too long.
(SS 7v12)

11). Never compare your husband to your one time s*x mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.
(SS 5v9)

12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him.
(Prov 31v23)

13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don’t do that.
(Eph 4v31)

14). Don’t forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.
(Prov 12v4)

15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.

16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.
(1 Sam25v3)

17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don’t waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave them if you want to Cleave and enjoy.
(Luke 21v16)

18). Never base love on monetary things. Encourage him to work hard and assure him of your support.

19). Don’t forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him.Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home.
(Gal 6v9)

20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always teamwork.
(Gal 6v10)

21). Don’t be too judgemental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.
(Eph 4v29)

22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn’t even know that her body needs a bath.
(Prov 24v27) (Prov 20v13)

23). Does your husband like a kind of food? try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food. (Prov 31v14)

24). Never be too demanding to your husband,enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.
(Luke 11v3)

25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.
(Prov 31v11)

26). Don’t associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.
(Prov 22v14)

27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.
(Heb 13v4)

28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.
(Prov 22v6)

29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family.
(Prov 31v28)

30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife, pray always for your husband and family
(1 Thess 5v17)

Have a lovely day….. God bless u all!

Friday 12 June 2015

Is masturbation bad


If you are a teenager, you might want to know, Is masturbation bad? Is there anything wrong with it? Am I the only one doing it? What kind of bad effects can it cause? Can it create problems in my future life, esp marriage? If you have all these questions, you have landed at the right place. Please read on.

Masturbation is not bad
Masturbation is a perfectly healthy activity. We are not against masturbation, we are only against excessive masturbation. Masturbation is even good for you in many ways, for example

It relieves you of all the tension so you can focus better on your studies and work
Makes you calmer and far more less aggressive
You will probably never have headaches if you are a frequent masturbator, it
Can be effective against certain diseases and medical conditions such as tension
Help reduce crimes.
Is over all healthy and is a natural need of the body and also gives you great pleasure.
Above all it is a sign of good health.
If you are masturbating once in a while or once every other day, there is nothing to worry about. If you doing it for a reason you shouldnt be doing it for, that is when it become more harmful and addictive. If you masturbate 3 times   in one day, that is totally ok. As long as your body needs it, the harmful effects are really none. But when the body does not need and you push it for reasons because you are lonely and you just have to masturbate, that is when it become harmful.

Excessive Masturbation is bad
We are against excessive masturbation. We think if you indulge in masturbation for not good enough reason for a long time and you regularly practice it, it might cause you to have serious trouble. The type of masturbation that can get you in serious trouble is, mostly all of these

You do not have friends.
You always indulge with yourself
You do not feel the need to mingle with others. You are your own best friend
You masturbate when ever you get a chance
You create situations for yourself in order to masturbate
You try new techniques because the old ones got boring
You do it just because you can’t fall asleep or you are alone
You dont feel the need for a relationship just because you are happy with yourself. You are always satisfied
You do it once or twice a day every day
You can’t skip a single day without masturbating, or can hardly skip
There is no end to it that you can ever stop it
You never get bored with it because you continue to change your fantasies
This type of masturbation can put you in serious trouble such as bending of penis, shrinkage of penis, premature ejaculation, lower back pain, reduced erection, loss of sexual pleasure because your orgasm become weak. Above all it affects your real relationship with the opposite sex. You feel you are not enough for them. Things like premature ejaculation can put a severe dent in your relationship depending on how serious it is.

Stages of Excessive Masturbation
Excessive masturbation as mentioned is not a short period. The harmful effects occurs over a number of years, usually 2years and above.
Thanks for reading